Hey everybody ^^,
Okay, thanks for your comments so far, really all of you support me a lot (also my friends who sometimes read that stuff here, but don't post here^^)
@littleCleo: Why don't you wanna leave comments, too? I know you're more to check out what's going on, but feel free to leave one ^^
@ neko: Why should you be too unexperienced to give me advices? ^^ Well you see, would I have tonnes of experience in this topic I wouldn't be discussing about this topic here ... Just tell me what you think ^^ I would be relieved to hear your advice ^^
@Carrie: okay, I'll just make a comment to each number, like you did.
1. Well, is it easier to say I live one hour drive south of Dortmund...? This is maybe easier ^^ Well, we have pretty much countryside here -.- For example, I have to drive half an hour to get to Menden, where I go to school and also some of friends (including my guy) live. You got now a little more where I live? @.@
2. Yeah, of course I also hug all of my friends when I feel like it. That's also why at first I didn't thought that this stuff betweenmy guy and me seemed to be different from normal -.- Though they it somewhat seemed normal and yet not -.- *terribly confused*, we both didn't intend to change, though he did after he had another crush.
So you maybe see now, because normally that also would be normal for me, why this whole thing is so confusing for me...
3. Yeah, at first they seemed really happy (I know from that friend I have in the same class than my guy's ex-girlfriend.)In the case of love, my friend told me so, she should be the same type: Just having a glance and saying "whaa, my greatest love ever!" -.- I think that was the main reason why they got along that well together...
4. -.- yeah, this actually is confusing not only me, his whole environment is, especially since he had that type of girlfriend... ^^
5. Wow, despite my weird english you got they problem *banzai* *hugging* ^^
random question: Would you phone him in this situation, when you a little confused, yes or no?
(I think I'll do so later, because I'm used to be confused ^^)
You know, I think I don't wanna keep the distance that far I am not even able to talk to him. And on the other side, even if I'll hurt myself, I don't wanna keep a distance. Because if I did, it would nearly be as the same as the time when he had his ex...I because I don't want that, I think at least phoning him would be the better solution wouldn't it?
Because it is weekend, nothing new happened. Will keep you updated ^^
tokomi
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Hey Tokomi,
Now I really can understand why you like blogging ;D!! It's good to have someone who helps you and those girls really are great :D!!!
For me it really is a good thing to maybe understand better what's going on inside you (as you know it's hard sometimes :D :D) I'll read a little more and maybe I'll post more regularly if it's no problem to you!!
Read you later :D
no of course it is no problem. do as you please, you're welcome ^^
tokomi *introducing you to all the others* ^^
Sorry, it's me again.
Would you mind helping me to create my own blog? I'm really thinking about doing so... well I don't know as many people as you do and maybe no one will ever read my blog but maybe it would be good to share my ideas. Although I don't know what to write yet the idea seems to be brilliant.
Yes... i think you should just keep in contact with him... Even if you're not dating each other, but still you wouldn't want to lose your best friend right?
One question. Forgive me if i'm being rude:
Is he worth your love...? i mean... a guy that constantly changes his girlfriend and could easily fall in love again and again.. I know this is not something that you could reason out and think logically...but still... *sweats*
hey neko ^^
of course you're not sounding rude! ^^ I am glad for asking.
to be honest ... I think he is -.- THough this isn't the first time I have fallen for sb ... from this I can tell you, my feelings for him are a little different from the other times, or you might say more complicated. I think maybe it's a different type of love?! -.- *hope you get what I mean* ^^
After all because of his habit to fall for sb ^^ it's sometimes painful. But just talking to him or seeing him might rescue my day ... and I never get tired of him. Like I said, it's somethign between a very close friendship and love -.-
For my I think he is both, one of my of my greatest friends and a beautiful but yet someitmes painful love. And both sides of him, I don't wanna miss them. ^^
*sweating herself now* ^^ I hope you got what I mean, sometimes I think my english isn't good eneoug to explain what I mean... ^^
When you have questions, feel free to ask.
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We hadn't had tecnology today, and I only saw him once but wasn't able to alk to him. intead of this we talked for nearly two hours again ^^ So it was quite entertaining and reliefing...^^ But it was nothing special, so I have the suspicion that the girl he had fallen for might have dumped him. I am not quite sure yet, but some wierd comments of him made me think abuot this.
That's all for now.tokomi
Hey Tokomi ^^
Me again xD
1. Ah.. now I got it. It was kinda complicated how it explained it before. you know I'm not that good in geogrphy xDD
2. That's also why at first I didn't thought that this stuff betweenmy guy and me seemed to be different from normal -.- Uh.. I think I've gotta think about that, I also didn't know that is isn't usual among friends xD Or at least not THAT usual ^^ I don't want people to think I have a bunch of boyfirends xD Well, actually I don't really care, I do as I like xD
3. "Whaa, my greatest love ever!" oh mai .. xD lol maybe you are right, but it didn't last long though xD
4. ......
5. Your English isn't weird!!! xD
Yep, Yep, I'd phone him. It won't do any harm, so.. xD But you don't need to ask actually, if you feel like it, just phone him ^^
Yep, no avoiding please xD
Yeah, I got it. Even though he is like that and even though you get hurt often, you still like him, because.. That's the way he is right? ^^ He can make your day, when you see him you are happy, although he might hurt you again, you do connive (connive, here: Overlooking someones bad habits xD).
You think she dumped him? Was he sad or something or something like "I don't care!"? And what about you, are you relieved?
Carrie
well, I have to cut it a little short, I'll just give you short answers...
to 2nd: Well, for me this habit normally is as usual as for you. But somewhat our friends hearing a little about it, they told me it wasn't that normal ... what the hell did we do? *slapping herself for the "hell" ^^* Well, you're right after all it is quite weird ^^
to your questioning part:
Well, he said something about music that is against stress @-@ you can call it that way? Well, and some other weird comment he always says when he was being dumped or at least gave up on that girl. He met with her last week by the way so maybe he got she was the wrong one or sth. other happened ^^ But I think I have to do more research to be sure about it.
Of course I'm feeling somewhat relieved ^^ To point it out, when I realized it it took me to heaven ^^ *laugh*
Have to hurry. Hope you did understand me ... ^^
I'll post the rest tomorow, I am in a hurry. tokomi
@hikari: I think about this blushing part...I get what you mean ^^ sometimes had this before, once in your way and more often in Carrie's ^^ maybe you'll also leave a comment`^^ tokomi
Hey Tokomi,
You know how much I was wanting to have a blog, too. Well my blog has to wait a little longer because something makes those people think my blog was a spam blog which can't be because I've just put in my picture and then it said I couldn't do anything! *screaming*
I worked the whole day to start my blog and now... *despairing*
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Well, about HIM!!
I'm standing right behind you remember that!!
little cleo^^
Hm where do i start, i'm so behind on everything here. And 1. Little cleo you should so start a blog, i can help if you want i've used blogger a lot and i got tokomi-chan started. And Neko your not rude at all, we like to here everyone's input don't we tokomi-chan?
@tokomi: I didn't realize you live that far away in the country (like i dont understand much cause i live in a suberb of a large city and 30 min away is pretty much the city so its not that far) but i guess it would be hard to be far away and not be able to see him. And if you phone him again maybe try not asking if he got dumped because it might upset him if he did or didn't and maybe see if he tells you first. I think its always hard to bring stuff up like that, i mean i can definetly not ask Ty is he still likes me. too embarassing. And im used to that kind of english from my spanish stepmom. im always correcting her and its all basically english anyway, screw grammar. And last question, is sb the initials for your guys name or what is it?
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